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I’m afraid to go to a new job
- Female gender
- Messages: 8007
- Registration: 08.03.2010
- Location: Moscow
Zdrac to everyone)) Halp mi, Halp Mi!
I go to work on Tuesday. I will try to briefly tell the background. Resigned from the previous ADOA work 3 months ago. I didn’t look for anything for almost a month, I was waiting for the heat, I was restored. Then quickly found a place near me. Everything seems to be nothing: honey.The center, the work is good, the salary is average, the functionality is familiar to me (there are new points, but I usually quickly enter new information), they should have opened in mid -September. It seems to relax;So, she monitored vacancies, occasionally even went to interviews, but not so hot: some sales or some incomprehensible offices. And then they call with honey.center and they say that the opening is postponed on December 1. Interesting girls dance: and to live on what? In general, I informed the boss that I would not wait and went on active searches. Found. Good, stable construction company, not a very large team (t.To. The main backbone is in regions, at objects), good salary (above the average Moscow time), not so far from, in a pleasant beautiful place in the center of Moscow. At first I was so delighted, because of all the crap that I reviewed – this is the only ray of light in the Dark Kingdom))
And now I’m sitting, I’m afraid. The functionality for me is the new mainly (this is a combination of the secretary, and the office manager, and the clerk), although the main base is familiar to me. But it’s still scary to go out. Sometimes I’m so afraid that I am ready not to go straight – but this, of course, is all irrational fears, t.To. I understand my mind that the work is good and I liked the place.
What to do? How to deal with this stupid fear of an unknown?
- Female gender
- Messages: 167
- Registration: 28.09.2010
- Location: Moscow
Anetta, welcome! Your fear is normal. It is in us in us. The fear of the unknown. This fear helps and interferes. I try to make friends with my fears. And in such a situation there was also. As a result, I went to a new job and everything turned
out to be not as scary as I imagined. The colleague became very friends. Accept that let it be not just at first, you will have to be mastered, a new job, a new team. When you accept, this panic fear, it will begin to melt))) because when we do not accept something, it begins to act on us even more.
- Female gender
- Messages: 8007
- Registration: 08.03.2010
- Location: Moscow
yes, thanks) I understand this: new and therefore scary. But the brain is not, no, and it begins to scroll through the paintings that in a month or two I am expelled with shame.
Although there were other sentences, also good: but there everything that I already know well and can, there is practically no growth and development. And there was a rush to call those places and go there. But I understand perfectly well: in order to develop, you need to leave the comfort zone. And so scary (